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Sexual Exploitation of Children in Southeastern Massachusetts – The Regional Report for 2024

A Surge in Online Exploitation

February 25, 2025

This report, and the data and information included within was written with input provided by team members from Children’s Cove: The Cape & Islands Child Advocacy Center, the Children’s Advocacy Center of Bristol County – a program of JRI , and Plymouth County District Attorney’s Office Children’s Advocacy Center.

Background

The Children’s Advocacy Centers (CAC) for Cape Cod & the Islands, Bristol County, and Plymouth County work collaboratively with every branch of law enforcement and child protective services to provide a coordinated response to the sexual exploitation and trafficking of children in our respective regions. Per state regulation, each Child Advocacy Center (CAC) has a response protocol and acts as the hub for cases which may involve a child at risk for, or who is actively being sexually exploited. Each of our centers works together and communicates regularly because often the children we support are victimized across our county lines. It is because of our unique roles and working relationship we see the trends which impact vulnerable children across our communities.

Each year our CAC’s look back at the previous year to identify the numbers, issues, trends, and information regarding the sexual exploitation of children in southeastern Massachusetts. This report contains facts, data, information and guidelines we believe our communities need to know to work together to create a future where children are free from abuse.

Defining the Issue

The term “human trafficking” for most, immediately brings certain images to mind. Perhaps these perceptions are from popular movies, awareness campaigns, or specific people or places. The issue is, however, far more complex and nuanced, and can be presented differently from region to region.

To start, this topic can seem confusing and full of nuance, but human trafficking can be generally broken down into two categories, labor trafficking and sex trafficking. Labor trafficking involves forcing a person to provide labor services whereas sex trafficking does not require an element of force but contributing or facilitating a person to engage in commercial sexual acts. In Massachusetts, “force, fraud or coercion” are not required for commercial sex acts for it to be considered human trafficking. For anyone under the age of 18, the definition is widely expanded due to the vulnerabilities inherent to this age group. Due to this fact, and in the interest of an accurate definition, we often use terms such as “sexual exploitation” to better capture these nuances of meaning.

Sexual Exploitation Can Fall Into Several Categories:

• Commercial Sexual Exploitation (CSEC) occurs when a person under the age of 18 is offered or given something of value to them in exchange for some type of sexual act. It doesn’t have to be in person, and it doesn’t need to be money for it to be commercial sexual exploitation. Value could be anything to a child, this includes food, clothing, a warm place to sleep, better grades, vapes, alcohol, or other substances, a trip to a salon, or even a ride somewhere.
• Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM) is defined as any visual depiction of sexually explicit conduct involving a minor (a person less than 18 years old.) CSAM is much more than photos and videos; it is a form of exploitation and abuse documented and shared across the internet in perpetuity. Every time an image is viewed, shared, paid for, or downloaded, the child is being revictimized and a crime takes place.
• Sextortion is a form of child sexual exploitation where a child is blackmailed with the threat of sharing with the public a nude or sexual images of them by a person who wants more images/ videos or money from the child. Because these images are CSAM, with a child being threatened, sextortion is a form of sexual exploitation of children.
• Online Enticement is when an individual communicates online with someone believed to be a child with the intent of committing a sexual offense or abduction.

Across all of these definitions, there are a few other notable constants. First, the perpetrator of the exploitation may, or may not be known to the child. This could be a stranger online, a current or former romantic partner, or a family member. Second, an exchange of something of value or images does not need to have taken place for it to be a crime. The act of offering or threatening someone for sexual exploitation is a crime in and of itself. Third, we must emphasize that all these circumstances are not just crimes, but child sexual abuse as well, which means that for mandated reporters in our Commonwealth there is a legal obligation to file a report for suspected abuse or neglect of a child if someone hears, knows or reasonably suspects this is impacting a child.

The State of Our Region

By The Numbers

Regionally, our centers had dramatic increase in referrals, with a staggering increase of 46% from last year. In 2024, regional CACs received 533 referrals, impacting 471 children. The youngest children impacted were from 4 years old, with 57 cases (approximately 10.7%) involving children 12 years old or younger. Most cases involved children between 13 years old and 17 years old, with 401 referrals (approximately 75%).  75 referrals for high-school aged adults make up the remainder of referrals (approximately 14%.) Of the referrals made, approximately 18% of youth were identified as male, 80% identified as female, and 2% identified as transgender or non-binary youth.

Key Data Points

After we reviewed and analyzed this data, we found several key points to highlight:

First, referrals took a significant jump in a calendar year. We are often asked, “is this because it is happening more, or is it being reported more often?” The answer to that question is complicated, however, to put it simply, we speculate that it is both. Regionally, our CAC’s have provided increased training on these issues to community members, youth serving professionals, and multidisciplinary team members. However, the dramatic nature of the rise also indicates cases have increased in frequency as well.

Second, the increase can also be attributed to more cases involving online facilitated crimes against children. In past years we have seen that more than 90% of cases, on average, contain an online element of communication or exploitation. However, last year more than 50% of all cases referred to our centers were online only, meaning that they are exclusively sextortion or online exploitation without an in-person component.  This is a significant rise and corresponds to the indication of a general increase in sexual exploitation happening more often.

Third, referrals for male victims have continued to increase year by year, with numbers up by 2% since last year. While this margin may seem insignificant, it corresponds to the ongoing theory and consensus that males are victimized at higher rates, because their rates of disclosure are significantly lower.

Trends and Patterns for 2024

Sexual Exploitation of Children Is Right Here

We cannot underscore the fact that exploitation of children happens right here in our own communities. This is not a “city” issue – Boston, New York, Miami or Las Vegas – but an issue in Hyannis, Brockton, Dartmouth, Mansfield, Berkley, Manomet, Yarmouth, Attleboro and more.  More importantly, very often children are being exploited in their own homes through online facilitated crimes. We need to emphasize this fact – when children have access to technology, they can explore the world, and the world has access to them.

This Issue Is Not Going Away

Last year, we looked back at more than eight years’ worth of data and found there had been an average annual increase in referrals for sexual exploitation of children in our region of 35%. Cumulatively, this equals over 2,000 children in our region referred for suspicions of sexual exploitation. Now, with data from 2024 analyzed, we have another year in which referrals have increased even more, with an alarming increase in Plymouth County which witnessed a nearly 80% rise.  As a note, referrals originating from one county does not mean that these cases are only restricted to one area. We often see cases crossing jurisdictions.

Artificial Intelligence (AI) Is Impacting Everything, Including CSAM

With the AI revolution unfolding over the last 18 months, a new form of victimization has become more mainstream. Individuals are carefully crafting “deepfakes” of children and teens to artificially create CSAM. Deepfakes are incredibly realistic videos or images that are manipulated using AI to make them appear real. Non-explicit images of children and teens are being manipulated by AI into content that appears real and exploitative. This is then being used for sextortion and manipulating youth to produce real content or to send money.

“Revenge Porn” a Rising Issue

Regionally, we have also seen an increasing rate of referrals for online sexual exploitation come in the form of peer-to-peer exploitation, often through means of sextortion or revenge porn. “Revenge porn” is a type of sexual abuse committed online by the sharing of nude or sexually explicit photos and/or videos of a person without their consent to shame or punish a current or former intimate partner. Other times, the threat of sharing this content is a way to control the person. Often the child being targeted is told their images will be shared directly with those who have meaningful roles in the child’s life, such as parents, teachers, coaches, members of their faith community or employers. It can be devastating to a person’s reputation, self-esteem, peer relationships, and wellbeing.

Fortunately, in June of 2024, Governor Healey signed into law An Act to Prevent Abuse and Exploitation, which seeks to prevent abuse, increase protections for survivors, and educate youth about  “sexting”. This law further criminalizes and expands punishments for revenge porn, extends prohibition to deepfakes and AI generated images, and mandates education for youth surrounding these issues.

A Misunderstanding of Victimization

A common misconception of all forms of child sexual abuse is that those who are victims should and will report it. Unfortunately, that is not true. 90% of victims of sexual abuse and assault will never disclose their abuse.  In most instances this is because the perpetrator of abuse is someone the victim knows, cares about or trusts. Other reasons are because a victim has been threatened or harmed, or other people they care about have been threatened or harmed. Other times, a victim of abuse may not know that they are being victimized – they may have limited knowledge of sexual matters which prevents them from understanding what is happening is wrong. With sexual exploitation, all these factors could be true, including cases where those who may be experiencing homelessness may face sexual exploitation as a means for survival.

Additionally, with some victims there is an inherent trauma response which may physically prevent them from asking for help. Most people are familiar with the “fight or flight” response, however, there are two others: Freeze and Appease. Freezing is when the nervous system is activated, and the person is not able to fight or flee, and they may be unable to move or respond. Often this can lead to a victim disassociating and may not remember the abuse or trauma. Appease refers to when the victim responds to abuse by going along with the abuse to minimize additional violence or repercussions. This can give outsiders a perspective that the victim was “willing” to engage in the behavior, however, most survivors who react in this way are unsure or even unaware as to why they acted this way.

Unfortunately, we have seen cases where reports of children being exploited were delayed because of this misunderstanding. We implore providers and community members that if you have a concern, please report it.

What We Need Parents to Know

Parents and Caregivers are Critical for Prevention

Parents need to be informed, engaged, and open with their children to take steps towards preventing sexual exploitation. In our area, this begins with online safety, as online exploitation is the primary method by which youth are being exploited. It is critical for parents to be as involved in their children’s online lives just as they are in their sports and other school activities. Parents need to understand how to use the popular apps and platforms kids and teens are using. Cases of exploitation have taken place on all internet accessible devices, including video game consoles, school-based devices, and even apps associated with school use. If parents and caregivers don’t have regular conversations about online safety, and monitor all internet-enabled devices, the opportunity for exploitation to happen in plain sight remains high.

Have Conversations Without Judgment

It is important for kids and teens to know that if they make a mistake, they can have a calm non-judgmental conversation with their parents and ask for help. Children need to know that their parents will always believe in them, advocate for them, and put their health and safety first. Having ongoing and regular conversations about safety with kids and teens will help them feel supported, can provide reassurance, and increase their likelihood to ask for help.

As a parent, if a child does make a mistake and report that something happened to them, remain calm, and don’t take quick action like deleting images or messages. These may be important to effectively report an incident and get help. Contact your local police department or local Children’s Advocacy Center for guidance. If you see or suspect child sexual abuse material online or on social media, you can report it to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children through their Cyber Tipline.

In some cases, children have been threatened to stay compliant with the demands of an offender. It may be difficult for a child to come to a caregiver for help if they are fearful of threats. Staying calm and knowing how to act is crucial in helping a child who is a victim of online exploitation. The more parents and caregivers engage in their child’s online life; while discussing the risks of online sexual exploitation, the more likely children will confide in their parents when issues arise.

Please, make sure to thank children for coming to you for help.

Get the Education you Need

We recommend parents understand the privacy settings of online and social media applications to increase the safety barrier between children and potential exploitation. Have conversations about body safety, online safety, and identifying trusted adults they can ask for help.

Action Steps

We will not be able to stem the tide of sexual exploitation in our community without your help. We need you to:

• Ask your children’s schools, recreational programs/centers, summer camps, and other youth serving organizations to work with your local CAC for training in recognizing and responding to abuse.
• Reach out to your local CAC to ask how you can learn more about the issue, request or organize training for your local community, school, non-profit organization, or business.
• If you are concerned that a child is being exploited, report it right away! You can report suspicious behaviors to your local Children’s Advocacy Center, law enforcement agency or file a report with the Department of Children and Families.
• There are numerous online resources for online exploitation of children. Visit the website for the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children to learn more about these resources, including their Take It Down resource, which you can access here.

What We Are Doing

Through our regional partnerships with fellow Children’s Advocacy Centers, and with support from the Massachusetts Children’s Alliance (the membership organization of the 12 Children’s Advocacy Centers in Massachusetts), we will continue to coordinate the investigative and support response for children who are victims of sexual exploitation throughout the commonwealth. In the last year collectively, our centers provided hundreds of hours to multidisciplinary professionals, law enforcement, prosecution and the community about recognizing, responding to, and the investigation of sexual exploitation of children. In addition to the training our staff provided, we offered a range of in-depth workshops, punctuated by powerful local and national speakers from the National Criminal Justice Training Center, the Zero Abuse Project, Internet Crimes Against Children investigators, federal and local prosecutors, judges, survivor speakers and victim advocates.

Regionally there have been concentrated efforts with law enforcement, The Department of Children and Families and our partner centers to enact the multidisciplinary response to children who may be missing or absent from care. Because of the high risk of exploitation, often in less than 24 hours of children going missing from home or placement, this regional response focusing on safety has become a priority initiative. This multidisciplinary response ensures that children receive the support they need, with an emphasis on health and safety, while also being able to respond to investigations promptly if the child is ready and able to engage in that process.

With the changing demographics and housing crisis in Massachusetts over the last year, our regional programs, in association with the Massachusetts Children’s Alliance, provided training for housing and emergency shelter staff throughout the region on how to recognize and respond to and signs of exploitation and trafficking.

With dedicated child exploitation response programs, as well as education and training of staff members, our ability to provide impact to our community and multidisciplinary partners is growing to stem the tide of sexual exploitation of children in our region.

We Are Your Local Resource

Sexual exploitation in our community and the risk to our children is increasing. If you want to learn more about how we are making an impact, would like to request training for your school or organization, or would like to learn how you can join us in tackling this issue, please contact us.

Children’s Cove | 508.375.0410 | www.childrenscove.org

Bristol County | 508.674.6111 | www.cacofbc.org

Plymouth County | 508.580.3383 | www.cac.plymouthda.com

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Because the Stakes are High, We Go All In

December 18, 2024

This month, Children’s Cove: the Cape and Islands Child Advocacy Center is pleased to announce we have been awarded re-accreditation by the National Children’s Alliance following an extensive application and site review process.

As the accrediting agency for Children’s Advocacy Centers (CAC) across the country, the National Children’s Alliance (NCA) awards various levels of accreditation and membership to centers responding to allegations of child abuse in ways that are effective, efficient, and which put the needs of child victims of abuse first.

With more than 950 CACs in the United States, national accreditation is the highest level of membership with the National Children’s Alliance and denotes an excellence in service provision. This is the fourth consecutive period of national accreditation received by Children’s Cove.

In addition, The National Children’s Alliance offers three additional optional standards which exceed the national mandate, of which Children’s Cove was recognized for meeting two: Prevention of Sexual Abuse, as well as the Standard for Commercial Sexual Exploitation of Children.

Because of the critical role CACs play in the investigation and response to crimes against children, NCA standards exist to ensure all children served receive consistent, evidence-based services that help them heal from abuse. Approximately every five years standards are updated to reflect the latest evidence and practices. CACs must readjust, realign, and train multidisciplinary partners to ensure all standards are met.

The National Children’s Alliance accredited membership is based on a Child Advocacy Center’s compliance with ten evidence and research-based national standards of accreditation to ensure effective, efficient and consistent delivery of services to child abuse victims. According to these standards, accredited members must utilize a functioning and effective multidisciplinary team approach to work collaboratively in child abuse investigation, prosecution, and treatment.

The National Children’s Alliance also considers standards regarding a center’s cultural competency and diversity, forensic interviews, victim support and advocacy, medical evaluation, therapeutic intervention, and child focused setting. These standards are analyzed by a team of professionals from NCA through a review of all standards of practice, in-depth site visit, and comprehensive interviews with staff, multidisciplinary partners, and referral partners.

This rigorous process allows our team to analyze, evaluate, discuss, and modify all of our practices on a regular basis to ensure we are meeting the needs of children and families in a timely and relevant manner. The evaluation allows us to think critically about the child-focused work we do to ensure we do not remain stagnant or leave critical issues behind. The stakes are high. We cannot afford to perform short of our very best when working with children who need our support the most. It is our responsibility to go ‘all-in’ for kids.

However, we cannot do this alone. Accreditation requires more than just the efforts of our own team, but a community of professionals working collaboratively. Together, we create a community free from abuse, supporting children and families in a trauma-informed and evidence-based way.

The following organizations have helped us in this achievement, either as an investigative partner, a referral source, a silent supporter, or even in managing the details of the day of the accreditation process:

Aquinnah Police Department, Aquinnah Wampanoag Tribe, Barnstable Police Department, Bourne Police Department, Brewster Police Department, Cape & Islands District Attorney’s Office, Cape Cod Children’s Place, Chatham Police Department, Chilmark Police Department, Child and Family Services, Dennis Police Department, Department of Children and Families Cape and Islands, The Department of Public Health, Eastham Police Department, Edgartown Police Department, Falmouth Police Department, Family Table Collaborative, Harwich Police Department, Mashpee Police Department, Mashpee Wampanoag Tribe, The Massachusetts Children’s Alliance, Nantucket Police Department, Oak Bluffs Police Department, Orleans Police Department, Pierce-Cote Advertising, Provincetown Police Department, Sandwich Police Department, Tisbury Police Department, Truro Police Department, Wellfleet Police Department, West Tisbury Police Department, Yarmouth Police Department, VNA Services of Cape Cod.

Thank you all for your dedication and hard work for children. Together we are working toward a community free from abuse, where children’s voices are heard and where they can live healthy and empowered lives.

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A Legislative Victory Supporting Survivors

October 22, 2024

Since 1981 in the United States, October has been recognized as Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Domestic violence, otherwise known as intimate partner violence, is unfortunately very common according to the Centers for Disease Control & Prevention (CDC), with “about 41% of women and 26% of men experiencing sexual violence, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner…during their lifetime.” Unfortunately, intimate partner violence is not limited to adults. The CDC estimates 1 in 12 teenagers in the United States have experienced sexual or physical violence as a part of relationships, the majority of these victims identifying as female.

As the nuances of relationships grow in our society, abuse can be physical, sexual, psychological, with the latter occurring with increased frequency  in  recent years via the many varied forms of online communication. Thankfully in Massachusetts, recent legislation has been passed to protect all people of an increasingly common form of intimate partner violence by banning revenge porn and expanding protections against abuse and exploitation.

“Revenge porn” is a type of sexual abuse committed online by the sharing of nude or sexually explicit photos and/or videos of a person without their consent to shame or punish a current or former intimate partner. Other times, the threat of sharing this content is a way to control the person, often referred to as “sextortion,” which you can learn more about from a previous “Our Take” article here.

When discussing how these forms of abuse affect kids and teenagers there is an intersectionality of  this type of intimate partner violence,  when we are also talking about the distribution of child sexual abuse material. Since 2020, Children’s Cove has seen an increasing rate of our referrals for online sexual exploitation come in the form of peer-to-peer exploitation, often through means of sextortion or revenge porn.

This type of victimization is more than a one-time event, it is a moment in time of vulnerability or intimacy being shared without consent in perpetuity. The act is relieved and reshared for days, months, years and decades by those who consume the content of exploitation; thus, the survivor continues to be revictimized. In many instances, this form of abuse is characterized by the images/video being  targeted and shared directly with those who have meaningful roles in the child’s life, such as parents, teachers, coaches, members of their faith community or employers. It can be devastating to a person’s reputation, self-esteem, peer relationships, and wellbeing. Furthermore, the advancement of Artificial Intelligence (AI) technologies and the production of “deepfakes” (realistic-looking image /video that has been manipulated to make it appear real) have only added to the complexities of this issue.

Fortunately, in June of this year, Governor Healey signed into law An Act to Prevent Abuse and Exploitation, which seeks to prevent abuse, increase protections for survivors, and educate youth about  “sexting”. This law further criminalizes and expands punishments for revenge porn, extends prohibition to deepfakes and AI generated images, and mandates education for youth surrounding these issues. As Lieutenant Governor Driscoll stated,

We applaud the Massachusetts Legislature and Executive Office for moving this legislation forward to making meaningful changes in support of survivors in Massachusetts. In addition, we want to recognize the hard work with our incredible community partners Independence House, A Safe Place Nantucket and CONNECT to End Violence. These incredible community partners work with those experiencing domestic violence and provide variety of helpful measures to individuals and families, including improving safety, support, and independence in their lives. The direct services team at Children’s Cove will often work collaboratively with these organizations when we are helping a child who has been abused or have witnessed the abuse of another in their home.

Children’s Cove partners with these regional sexual and domestic violence agencies to end violence and abuse on Cape Cod, Nantucket, and Martha’s Vineyard. We know that sexual abuse, domestic violence, and sexual exploitation impacts people of all ages, genders, cultural backgrounds, and socioeconomics.

If you would like to learn more about the free and confidential services available to our communities or provide information to someone who may need support, we are here to answer questions and offer help.

Learn how to access support services across the Cape & Islands here.

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A Gap in Child Protection in Massachusetts

August 15, 2024

As we move deeper into August, back to school shopping is underway while parents search for schedules, plan after-school activities, and get ready for the rush of Labor Day weekend. At the same time, school administrators are finalizing class schedules, planning in-service trainings and professional development for teachers, and classrooms are being prepared.

As a part of professional development opportunities, which mark the start of a new school year, our hope is that regional schools include training which focuses on their critical role in safety, and the prevention of abuse. Regardless, however, of trainings, important policies, and procedures, we know there is likely one critical gap which is often found unaddressed across our state: enforceable action against teachers who engage in inappropriate behavior with students aged 16 and older.

This has been a longstanding issue in Massachusetts with failed attempts at legislation dating as far back as 2009. However, in January of this year, a tragedy befell the New Bedford community with the death of Jacob Pothier, and a new light was cast upon the failures to protect this young man from a system designed to educate and protect him. For more than two years, a faculty member allegedly engaged in an inappropriate relationship with Jacob, regardless of reports to the school, which continued until the day he lost his life. While this brazen engagement in an inappropriate relationship with a student in a school setting may seem implausible to many, there is one major reason why it still takes place: there is no legal means by which an adult or person with power, control or authority can be held accountable if a child has reached the age of 16 – the legal age of consent in Massachusetts.

This fact leads to not only a gray area for school policies and procedures, but also provides a loophole for those who have intent to engage in sexual or other inappropriate behaviors with teens to escape justice, and to continue offending. Let’s break it down: when we look at the profiles of those who have a history of sexually abusing children outside of their home or families, there is a large connection between their work or community presence and direct interaction with children. This can include childcare and early education workers, pediatricians, children’s entertainers and, of course, teachers. When these offenders choose to apply for a job at a school, they will also learn all about the school’s child-protection policies to identify any weaknesses or loopholes which they can exploit to offend or harm children. And unfortunately, in Massachusetts, the largest gap in child protection is not from the school’s policies and procedures, but from Massachusetts law itself.

This glaring oversight of law is astounding to acknowledge, given the fact Massachusetts is a state which has long prided itself as being at the forefront of education in our nation. The Commonwealth falls behind other states in child protection as reported by the New Bedford Light, states such as North Carolina, Washington, and our fellow New England state of Maine have specific statutes identifying sexual relationships between students and teachers / faculty as a crime. Another critical element of these statutes is the requirement to have offenders register specifically as sex offenders. This is critical, because when individuals apply for jobs working with children, they are required to undergo a Criminal Offender Record Information (CORI) check, and a Sex Offender Registration Information check. However, due to the lack of legislation in Massachusetts, when school personnel use their positions to take advantage of students beyond the age of consent are caught, they simply resign and move on to another school district.

Locally, this is not a new issue, with an inappropriate and sexual relationship between a teacher and a student at D-Y Regional High School making the news through the Cape Cod Times and community chatrooms in 2015. This case resulted in a slightly better outcome, with the offender agreeing to surrender his teaching license. However, the conversation has remained the same, legislation stalled, and statutes remained unchanged ever since.

What we have described is an unconscionable gap of child protection upon which the state seemingly refuses to act. This coupled with the fact that there remains no legal requirement for schools to educate child sexual abuse prevention marks a blemish on our record of education and civil rights.

For now, Children’s Cove will continue to work with our 11 other partner Children’s Advocacy Centers – at no cost – to provide education and training to schools and youth-serving organizations to better recognize and respond to abuse. Additionally, we will collaborate with Safe Kids Thrive through the Massachusetts Children’s Trust to provide prevention strategies and tool kits to prevent abuse.

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Summer Programs are Critical to Abuse Prevention and Recognition

June 17, 2024

Schools at every grade level across the country are one of the most critical youth-serving organizations (YSO) for recognizing, responding to and reporting abuse and crimes against children. You can see the critical impact schools have on recognizing abuse by our past article The Frontline of Recognizing Abuse: Teachers here. However, there are other organizations at different times of year who are just important in this endeavor of creating safe communities for children, ones not often thought about. As schools let out for the summer, other YSOs in Massachusetts are preparing for their summer sessions, it is critical these organizations are committed to preventing and responding to child sexual abuse.

Child safety is more than handbooks, policies and procedures; however, they are a critical place to start. Our Partners at The Children’s Trust and the Safe Kids Thrive provide everything youth-serving organizations need to build policies and best practices around child abuse prevention. This month they highlighted some ways to increase the elements of safety in organizations serving children this summer:

• Verify that all staff and volunteers acknowledge, understand, agree with, and sign your Code of Conduct. Include a Code of Ethics outlining your commitment to keep kids safe.
• Ensure leadership models appropriate behavior and promotes positive interactions among staff and children. Encourage staff to view safety as a priority and mutual responsibility of all.
• Create opportunities to talk with all staff about abuse prevention policies and build comfort with this topic. Communicate your policies and protocols to all stakeholders, including the parents and families of the children you serve.
• Remind staff and volunteers to honor their duties and responsibilities as mandated reporters under MA law. Train all staff and volunteers on when, how, and to whom to report suspected abuse or disclosures of abuse.
• Check driving records and ensure drivers responsible for the transportation of children have adequate credentials. Ensure that all staff and volunteers participating in off-site activities adhere to policies on transportation.

-These highlights are provided to you by Safe Kids Thrive.

Second, while it is important for YSOs to have these policies and procedures in place, it is all the more critical that all staff, counselors and even administrative staff receive adequate training. Knowing what each person’s role is in the greater role of child abuse prevention and safety creates an atmosphere of safety. The message delivered by YSO administration should be “these policies are non-negotiable values of the organization.” Training team members on an annual basis, as well as effective training on how to recognize and respond to abuse (as provided for free by the Children’s Cove Education and Training team) should be a regular strategy.

Third, parents need to be involved and ask about a YSO’s policies on protecting children. Safety and prevention starts with you. It starts with conversations you have with your children, teaching them about body safety, child sexual abuse, appropriate boundaries, and what to do if a child feels unsafe.  In addition, parents need to have direct conversations with your children’s schools and summer programs about how they recognize, respond to, and report abuse. This holds everyone accountable for the safety of children.

It takes a community to protect our children. It takes responsibility, accountability, transparency, and conversations about the public health and safety of children. All children deserve a community free from abuse, where their voices are heard, and where they can live safe, healthy and empowered lives.

If you would like support as a parent, community member, youth-serving organization, in learning how to keep children safe and prevent abuse, please contact Jacob Stapledon, Community Engagement and Education Program Manager at Jacob.Stapledon@childrenscove.org to discuss your needs or request a free education session or training.

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When Information, Access, and Reporting Goes Too Far

April 23, 2024

In the United States, since 1983 Child Abuse Prevention Month is annually observed by presidential proclamation throughout the month of April. It is a critical time to raise awareness of our nation’s child abuse crisis. The statistics remain overwhelmingly alarming that one in four girls — and one in six boys — will be sexually abused before their 18th birthday. Most victims suffer in silence as it is estimated that more than 90 percent of abuse victims never report what happened to them. Even more disturbing is that more than 90 percent of perpetrators are someone an abused child knows and trusts – a coach, camp counselor, teacher, someone in their faith community, or a family member.

This month child safety advocates across the state and nation are urging communities to come together to make a difference, often to encourage parents, caregivers, and community members to have wider conversations about the issues, talk with children about body and online safety, and how to ask for help if something happens. This year is no different, however, we would like to call forward another important issue.

Just two years after the annual recognition of child abuse prevention month, the first Children’s Advocacy Center (CAC) was established in Huntsville Alabama.  For nearly 40 years CACs have worked to improve investigations and healthy outcomes for children. A major focus of the work of CACs is to reduce the re-traumatization of children by minimizing repeated interviews detailing the intimate and graphic details of their abuse. We strive to ensure that when a child has discussed what has happened to them, that unless it is critically necessary or for purposes of prosecution, if a child chooses not to talk about their trauma again, they won’t have to. For when we think about our darkest memories and experiences, we tend to relive them viscerally. However, there is an increasing issue in our society where at times victims must relive their trauma and experiences further in a very public way.

As public interest of major incidents of child sexual abuse and exploitation has grown over the years, so has the reporting around it. Unfortunately, the rush to be first for reporting cases involving child sexual abuse has taken priority over the important questions about what information is being reported, and whether it serves the public interest for safety. We have seen a dramatic increase in print, televised, and social media reporting on active cases of child sexual abuse which goes far beyond the scope of public’s need-to-know. This has included intimate details of sexual abuse and assault, children’s statements in police reports, and the over-describing of the relationship between alleged perpetrators and victims. We have seen cases where photographs of children who may have been victims in cases of family violence have been pulled from private social media accounts and rebroadcasted. What’s more, there have been instances where information included in reports which identified the victims through association or unnecessary ancillary details.  Worst of all, reporting which portrays victims in the light they are at fault and/or undermines the credibility of a child.

At best, this is the result of a lack of understanding of best practices in reporting and the critical importance of not identifying victims of sexual crimes (especially children.) At worst, and at the crux of the issue, we are placing a child’s most devastating trauma on full display for shock value. Through digital media, social media, and the increased speed at which anyone can access information, not only can child victims be identified in their own community and publicly confronted with their trauma, but victims themselves by being exposed to this reporting will relive their trauma again. The fear that “everyone will find out” is an incredible barrier for victims to come forward for support, and the intense reporting of these cases only adds to this, especially with the venom and vitriol of social media commentary.

There are some who choose to share their stories of abuse, explain how it happened, and the impact it has had on their lives.  They are survivors who have been through the processes of the investigation, potential prosecution, and received supportive services. Most importantly, they have made their own choice about what to share, what not to share, and most often leave out the intimate details of what happened. The type of reporting we have seen nationally has been the opposite of this.

Our fascination with the traumatization of others – abuse, murder, exploitation – through social media, TV shows, and movies has translated into the over-exposure of a victims experience through media reporting. Clicks, views, and media ratings cannot untangle the web of complex trauma, it will only add to it and reduce the possibility that others will come forward.

Culturally, we need to ask how we wish to contribute to the prevention and trauma-informed response to child abuse. Is the solution in reporting the details of what the victim experienced, or in the charges against the alleged perpetrator and a focus on their actions? Is it creating narratives which undermine the credibility and support of victims, or can we educate and inform what charges mean, and what local resources for sexual abuse and assault victims are and how to access them?

We can create a world where children are free of abuse, have a voice that is heard, and where they enjoy healthy, safe, and empowered lives. It’s small, transformative steps such as this which will help us get there.

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We want to ensure that those who have the responsibility to report the news have the opportunity to request and receive training and consultation for best practices. If you would like to learn more about ways to report cases in a trauma-informed fashion, please reach out to Jacob Stapledon, Community Engagement and Education Program Manager by emailing him at jacob.stapledon@childrenscove.org 

There are additional resources for media sources on our website here.

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